Sunday, December 4, 2011

Weekend

This weekend was a very busy weekend.  We went to the Toledo Zoo to see the Christmas lights on Saturday and then on Sunday we went to see a play based on the movie A Christmas Story.  We are getting very excited/nervous about this Thursday.  They will do a 2nd trimester screening and if the little one is cooperative we will find out if it is a boy or girl :) 
On another note, I have had several people thank me and express kind words about me writing this blog.  I am glad you enjoy it.  I just found this is one way for people to follow our story as we go along this pregnancy after a loss.  Also, it helps me get out how I feel during this time. 
In the past and still today there have been still several people that have asked me questions such as “I had a friend who had a second trimester lost, what should I do or get them?” “How do you help someone grieve?” etc.  I do have a handful of friends that I talk to about Rylee often and there have been times where I might mention something and thier response is “I have always wanted to ask you that, but I didn’t know how.”  So I was thinking (I know, I don’t do that often) that if anyone has a question about anything (my first pregnancy, Rylee, the time between Rylee and this little one, this pregnancy, grieving, or anything else) please feel free to send me a private message on facebook or email me at aallen001@defiance.edu with your questions.  I would be glad to answer them on here.  By doing this I can answer your questions and help others.  I will not use your name I will just post your question and answer it based on what I went through or how I feel.  So please feel free to shoot me your questions you may have and I would LOVE to answer them.
Today I am thankful that I am pregnant (19 weeks tomorrow)


Lights before Christmas

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